I am not gonna lie, that (good) bitchy attitude has sculptured me to become a strong person nowadays. Bitch has three meanings for me; 1) the terms I (or we) call the BFF, 2) tough, strong, high-standard, fighter, 3) S*U* So 'we all have that bitch attitude' means the moment when we just have to step out from the crowd, and stand for ourselves. Admit it ladies, this world is not a sweet fantasy like in a cartoon. In contrast, it is the world mixed with good and bad people. The more I grow up, the more I realize that it is all about a competition, even in the blogging industry. We can't just be kind to every single person because being too kind means letting the guard down. As a result, it may lead to the point of being taken advantage. I am kind, but I have never let my guard down because I have this bitchy mode on literally to protect myself from being let down and disappointed. Similar to work, I am picky and bossy and I know that being like this will lead to the great performance of the project I have worked on.
STRONG WOMAN WITH THE ATTITUDE
I am a very straight up person, so I always say what I think. It happens all the time that I don't really smile, but tend to say things bluntly, which other may misunderstand my honesty...Seriously, my eyes and street fashion style sometimes put people off because I don't look friendly, but I am pretty laid back indeed (lol) The personality behinds The Equinox Fashion is real and I don't hold back my tongue. I am very tough, independent and sincere person. I had been taken advantages for so damn long, and it made me realized "If I am being too easy for others???" And yes, I did. My relationships were screwed up because I was always there for the guys. My works were copied because I told every secret behinds the success. WTF!? So, here is the new me, the whole new person with the attitude because I am now stronger than before.
Sometimes, life teaches me the very good lessons that got me in tears. From death to backstabbing, I have been through. Like I mentioned, I am very kind person, if you know me. However, I just can't be like that all the time right? If I was being a generous person, saying yes to every task assigned at work, I would end up like a doormat for everyone else. In reality, we need to learn how to reject and say NO to save our ass from many situations. I used to say yes to everything, and guess what? I ended up being a dramatic person. And I will never want to feel that way again and again.
IT IS NOT BAD TO BE A GOOD BITCH
It is not bad to say what we want, and to do what we want. To be perfectionism, to be whatever we want, there's nothing wrong about it. There is nothing wrong to swear, or to claim for something we deserve. If we don't stand for ourselves, who will?
Also, I would love to take this opportunity to thank you Hazel M Design for my amazing illo! I really love it :) You guys should check out her profile, as she also does the illustrator for bloggers. Once again, thank you very much Hazel!
