What It's Like to be an Introvert Person?

Langkawi, Island

I'm not gonna lie, but I love spending time with myself the most. Am I an anti-social? Do I hate people? No, I am not anti-social and I don't hate people. I just feel more comfortable with myself. How the hell can I be a fashion & travel blogger of The Equinox Fashion, when I hate surrounding myself with others?

?? Well, sometimes you gotta fake it til you make it. Cliche but it's true. Work is work, so if I want to earn a living, I do need to step up my game and mingle with other people. Trust me, some people don't understand the behavior of an introvert person. That's why here I am to share with y'all what it's like to be one of a kind.

WE LOVE QUITE PLACE & PRIVATE MOMENT IS A BIG DEAL

I mean going to the fashion event, travel with the brands or bloggers is fine, but what I enjoy the most seems to be the moment when the day is over. YES! When I come back to the hotel and just chill. I am not a talkative person, so talking always uses lots of energy for me lol. When I open my mouth, it's genuine, but I just can't talk 24/7 It's really not me. Whenever I am in the car or the public transportation, the big head phone is my best friend. Honestly, I just love the moment when I can be with myself the most. Even a short period of commuting from one place to another.

So I guess you can assume what I love to do when I have a day off? Yup, stay home and watch a movie. I do love going out with some of my friends, but they have to be my closed friends or those who I can really be a talkative person with.

FYI, we a.k.a. 'introvert' people don't like going in a big group. Just 1,2 or 3, that's more than enough (at least for me)

WE DON'T REALLY TALK, BUT WE ARE A GOOD LISTENER

Seriously, this is who I really am. Some might think that we are not in the mood, or angry with something, but NAH. Yes, sometimes I feel uncomfortable when I have to put myself around a lot of people, or when I hear them talking a lot. However, I ain't mad. It feels more relaxing when I listen.

I am a good listener, because I love thinking. We, introvert loves to think, and that's the truth. I don't talk, but I observe others a lot (without speaking) Like I said, I don't wanna consume too much energy on the topic I don't wanna be a part with. And that's how I really feel. In fact, it can be struggling sometimes. For example, if I have to go out with a lot of friends, or attend the beauty events which I have no idea about the makeup products. Well, I don't even use the foundation, so what do you expect to hear from me? lol However, I think it's good to learn from others. Though I don't know shit about the cosmetics, or I ain't gossip shit about the celebrities and stuff, it's good to know what's going on in the society. The learning process without saying a word is what I LOVE.

WE KEEP IT LOW PROFILE AND DON'T WANT TO BE NOTICED

This shit is real. I don't like bragging myself or telling people of what I am doing. Even at the party or fashion event, I prefer to drink instead of chatting with others. I know, this is not good because working in this industry means the more connection the better.

Personally, I just don't like saying "heyyyyy I am a travel blogger, look how many countries I have been" Or "Heyyy I am a blogger, here's the new bag I was sent to" Like, I think it's ridiculous. You might think it's normal, but I think I am just one of the human-being on earth. So, if you wanna know about me, let's get to know each other and have a talk.